It’s amazing really how two contradicting things works in the same spectrum. Notice how getting so used to being alone eventually become toxic to you; because solitude and alone-ness itself is a venom? (psychologically proven). And notice how getting emotionally attached can also cause deindividuation, as you forget how you live in this world without the significant presence of a certain someone or a group of people?
Sure. Both may be at the furthers end, opposite from each other.
One, blindly shining,
The other, a calm-darkness like a quiet nighttime.
Funny how they are still on the same spectrum.
But the question is,
Which one will you let ruin you?