You meet someone,
It’s all good and seems real & different, you start to have a deep conversation with them and learn about their life and their past. You talk every hour of the day and you start to crave to see them. It gets to a point where you plan out a future with them. You want to keep they stay in your life,cause you start to thought their are special. Maybe,too special.
Things start to change. You start to talk less and less. They start to become distant, and you start to chase them when they show you that they don’t care anymore & you’re stuck wondering where things went wrong and the reasoning for chasing them is because you want the person they first were when you guys start catching feelings. They have changed a lot,and it hurts you when you realize how someone that you sincerely in love with can turn into someone that you cant even recognize. Its sad when all of the efforts that they always show at the beginning,becomes nothing at the end of the day.
Things like this is why nobody can trust anyone & why things are so hard in this generation to actually love someone & be in a faithful relationship.
This is why people rather stay single,be alone and not stress themselves about being hurt by someone that they hope wouldn’t hurt them. They choose to stay away from people because they know how its going to turn out from their past experiences. Some people are different though,some will take on being with someone who hurts them knowing damn well their not good for them because for these type of people,they rather feel this than have the feeling of loneliness.
But mostly for others,they grow tired of always chasing someone who doesn’t care about them. They start to become a “heartless monster” and push everyone away. They make a distance from people because they afraid if they become too “friendly” things will get hard again.
Its hurt when things end on bad terms because of someone going from “baby I’ll never leave you i love you so much” to “im not a right person for you,and this is our end”. Its hurt to see things switching up entirely,the most hurt part is when they start to act like they never told you anything and dropping all the promises they has made to you.
THAT PERSON- will definitely act like the victim. They will start to play a role of it being YOUR fault. They will start to show the world that they are the one who has been hurt,when the fact is they are the one who has hurt you. They do that just to get rid of guilt of them hurting you because they are too stubborn and blind to what you have do for them,and they don’t want to admit that they has take you for GRANTED.
The actions from that person who didn’t appreciate you at all is really important. If they truly act like you never existed and start to want and get attention from others ,you just have to let them go. No matter how hard and hurt it is,they just don’t deserve you. They don’t deserve even a little piece of your care and love. You are not a toys,your heart are not a playground and you’re definitely not their fucking second choice.